It depends on when you do it and what look he wants. I always want to maximize my curls+++
Wide tooth comb or tangle teezer
I use WetBrush and Tangle Teezer and neither break my hair nor do I lose more than expected from +
Boring stuff like a Tangle Teezer/wet brush, Creme Shop eye masks
Does she have a Wet Brush or Tangle Teezer? These are good on wet or dry hair and might be less +
Try a tangle teezer.
I like both of these>>>